Sometimes, when we have already made a decision, either small decisions or big decisions, there comes a second thought. It makes us feel uneasy of decision we have made. The worst part, this second thought comes right after we have agreed on something. If it comes prior to decision making, it might helps us. But what to help when the decision has been made. It makes us worry and uncomfortable. It makes us guilty in charge of our decision. It makes us feel terrible. Second thoughts usually come in an opposite of our decision. For example, we decide to buy an Iphone 6, once bought there comes second thought "I wish to have spent it on vacation.". Which we cannot undo the situation. Another example, we have made up our mind to join another venture in another company and already signed the offer letter, second thought'd be like, "What if the next company is totally a nightmare?"
This wishful thinking, the "if" questions that been wandering in our mind are really disturbing. I dont know about others, but it happens to me. But if you were me, how do you handle second thoughts? Do you trust your second thoughts? Can it be changed and follow your second thoughts instead? Would that pay you more satisfaction in your life? Or you just ignore and let it be? Cause after all, it is just a second thought. What comes after that, is a life-experience.
Second thoughts can make you feel scared of moving forward. It makes you stay in one place. That what I presume. Cause to get out of your comfort zone, ignore the scary, uneasy second thoughts of yours.
If the world can survive, we can survive.
