As I'm eating instant noodles on my bed, I'm thinking about the conversation I had with boyfriend earlier today. We went for a hiking and on our way we were talking about his friend whom just had a break up due to the girlfriend cheated him to someone else. The guy was about to propose her when he realized there is something not right and they broke up. Two months later, the girlfriend married to someone else whom she has long known before the break up.
A week before my office mate's wedding, she caught her fiance for cheating her with a Siamese girl. The horrible part, it was a week before the wedding. Both of them didn't call the wedding off and they got married just on paper. They are not staying together, they are not like other newly-wed couples. She is living in her nightmare which is terrifying. A day after new year of 2015, she logged on into her Facebook account and apparently she couldn't resist to not to click on the Siamese girl profile. And there it was, a recently uploaded picture of the Siamese girl with her husband. Smiling, hugging and very intimate. She was crying like a baby, she couldn't control and did not know what to do except letting go of her emotions and sorrow. The moment I hear her cries, I knew, her heart just got broken, crushed deep into the sea for, I don't know how many times.
And it was a day after Christmas Day in 2014 when a dear friend called me. She told me that another dear friend of us just called off the wedding with the girl she loved. They have engaged and planning to get married by this year. A friend of us just couldn't take it anymore, he could no longer bear all the heartache, the battlefield he's in for months and he knew his fiance has someone else before the engagement day. Sadly, the fiance did not admit and blame a friend of us for not trusting her. A friend of us only knows one thing, he wants back the ring, for sure.
Cheating, it can happen to anyone at anytime at anywhere. It's true what they say, "it takes two to tango". But why cheating? Why do we have to hurt someone we love? Where all the loves go? If you are no longer in love, then why can't just break up nicely and get it over with instead of, cheating?
Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I will never accept if my boyfriend is cheating me for someone else. Same goes to him. Because, we practically are too attached to each other, we adapt each other's interest, we have learnt so many things about our partner, and all of sudden we go cheating with another guy and we have to do it all over again? No, that is exhausting. And whoever done that is a real jerk, pussy and cold-hearted.
If ever cheating is a crime, the prisons will be full by the cheaters.
